What do I do!

What do I do when I am suffering?
How do I transform it rather than turning into another bad episode of pain?

Ans.

1. Be open to the experience!
2. Take responsibility - How have I gotten in this situation?
(Am I willing to see, how I got here?)

and If someone else is fully to blame for my current state...I have no hope!
If I chose a bad set of people while in my college days, they are not to be blamed!
I made a choice and I cannot change that now!

But if I say, yes that certainly has affected the way I feel at this moment...
There is a link of that situation to my state of being!

But you are free to make better choices today by owning
up to your mistakes!

Its difficult but also liberating!

That evolution is!

That evolution is the name of the game!
If we don't evolve as people, we are not open to change!
and if we get stuck saying this who I am!
This is what I believe in..
then the world is going to leave you behind!

Freedom is!

Freedom is not the right to do what you want!
freedom is the opportunity to do what is right!

well put!

and

Right to express is not a license to abuse!

Jaipur - Block printing & Natural Dying

I went to Jaipur a few months back and visited a small workshop that deals with natural colours and block printing. This print is famous by the name Bagru Print!

Bagru is a small village around 45 minutes for the Pink City and is famous for its printing techniques.
People staying in this village belong to Chhipa community.
Chhipa (Means people who print or stamp)
This village was developed as a centre for block printing!

The people from Chhipa community came from Sawai Madhopur to Bagru and settled along the Sanjaria River.

That is the reason that the second form of printing (besides Bagru print) is called 'Sanganer' Print.
Sanganer print consists of brighter colours whereas Bagru essentially has mainly four colours
i.e. Maroon, Indigo, Black and yellow. Bagru is a printing technique which uses all natural colours and that is the speciality of this village.

Sharing some pictures that I took..

One colour at a time (Synthetic colour) block printing

Block Printing Using synthetic colours..

This does not mean

This does not mean that I read all this so I am perfect!
I mean I will still start a fight if you are rude to me!
It just means that we should start at least considering,
that we are bigger than all these day to day things!
And that we should try to fight less may be! ;p

and that we are not here just to earn money, buy cars or bigger houses
its more about sharing your spiritual experiences! Even by putting one mystical
or spiritual experience out how you are touching other people's lives!

!

The truth is that we are all timeless, eternal, loving, compassionate
and powerful spiritual beings. We are traveling through a limitless Universe.

We have helpers, guides, angels around us Always!
They care deeply for us and help when needed!
We are never alone, forgotten or vulnerable like we feel we are sometimes!

You are incredibly more than you think!
and your life is not yours alone! Your guides speak to you often
and you hear them through your intuition!

You have been led through lifetimes for discovering soul growth...
You won't die in this life until the second your scripted time!
A time you chose before you were born!
and that death is really a thing to rejoice in!

Spend more time in silence and around nature to remember your true frequency!

About Satan

"Our minds are led by the spirit we are entertaining,
the spirit of God or the spirit of Devil, which is 'self'!

The devil is the spirit of selfishness!

To act selfishly is to surrender to the will of 'the beast'!

A belief!

A belief is nothing but a chronic pattern of thoughts,
and you have the ability, if you try even little bit -
to begin a new pattern, to tell a new story,
to achieve a new vibration, to change the point of attraction!

The law of attraction is responding to your vibration, and you
can easily change the vibrational point of attraction by
visualizing the lifestyle you desire and holding your attention
upon those images!

- Abraham and Jerry

Our mind picks up an element happening in our life and starts creating patterns
what if we picked up the best things in life and created patterns with those!

Spectrum of thoughts...! :)

Thoughts can be

1. Hang ups!
2. Fear
3. Emotional Baggage
4. Guilt and shame

And they are entities! Thoughts become things!

Earthly lives are mostly about emotions, relationships & intentions!

So here it goes - Starting from the bottom!
Spectrum of emotions!

Shame
     |
Guilt
     |
Apathy
     |
Grief
     |
Fear
     |
Desire
     |
Anger
     |
Pride
     |
Courage
     |
Neutrality
     |
Willingness
     |
Acceptance
     |
Reason
     |
Love
     |
Joy
     |
Peace
     |
Enlightenment

Now try attaching these emotions with your intention towards others!
Based on that you are creating your relationships!
Its like a math equation!

emotion + intention = relationship

(Intention are only two points Good and Bad...and then there could be grey
How good or how bad or vice a versa!)

So basically there are 17 colors (emotions) and
black and white (your intentions!) and
then you are going to paint your relationships!

We are all jumping up and down these points throughout our lives!
or in every moment to be more precise!

But the more you choose things from courage down to peace and joy
(even with people who are not your friends)
that is what you are creating and these things are persistent!

they are like colours you choose....

If you choose darker colours...you are going to paint a dark life....
If you choose the brighter colors you are painting a brighter life!

Hold people accountable...but don't hold a dark coloured thought about them in your mind!
Keep them at a distance but try to be neutral about them! no judgements!

sometimes really struggle at this!


I just noticed! Pride is the golden point between the dark and the light emotion!
and that is the break through  :)

They harmed me! - this sentence has wrapped up in ego!
If change it to - No one can harm me! (emotionally)
Its the emotional pain that we are worried about!
Physical pain has external remedies!

since No one can harm me (someone's blog cannot harm me)
(that does not mean that person is allowed to write any nonsense)
                   |
I do not create the darker emotions (like fear, anger, shame etc.)
                   |
Since 'I' am unaffected my intentions are great!
                   |
and its a great bright, beautiful life!

The End!

p.s. externally try to take action if someone is doing
something harmful but don't hold on grudges!

Communication and self defense is must!

'Koyal' sings! ;p

When you tell your story!
About that thing that happened to u in college!
and then they say 'nothing happened!'

Be sure when you die and you are not around!

They WILL say 'she never existed! who is she anyway'!

Moral of the story....they do not care even a bit that you are alive and
wouldn't care you were dead!

Probably because they are cowards, they are ignorant and self obsessed
or they were complicit in turning the events against you in college!

Or worse still ARE part of the group that is still spreading things about you!

These are the people tear the petals apart and challenge you to prove the sentence
'Koyal' sings! because the flowers are blooming and the summer is here!'
They are trying to divert your attention by the stunt
of 'Smothering' flowers.....

Because their minds are filled with darkness.
They cannot appreciate simple things in life!
So they are trying their level best to complicate yours!
They have crippled minds! I'd rather not comment about their bodies!

....no matter how many flowers you kill,
you cannot stop the summer from arriving and Koyals from singing!

Look for people who water the plants! and Help flowers bloom!

You can do better!

If you are being subjected to someone's cheap tactics.
Please communicate with the right people! Don't get angry!
Thats just inviting an infamous, underserved and unwanted Tumblr post!

You can do better!

People can be like terrible nightmares!
Communicate that you are having one!
If you are having one!

So someone can give a glass of water!
Don't 'become the nightmare!' in turn!
Thats just pushing people away!
even those who are willing to help!

Transform your fears, anxieties!
(but first speak out!)

Why?

Take care of your body!
Because its a machine given to you
to express in this realm!

Treat it well.

Anger, negativity damages you soul and then your body
Try to control it! meditate with each breath...
Don't leave that practice just because you have started feeling better!

You are on a journey towards peace! stop paying attention to people
who laugh at your rage....you are getting there! and you are trying!
You are on the right path...! And that matters!

NEVER play tactics in your personal or professional life!
Don't exploit someone else's weakness!

People who win by these means are great gamblers!
and remember you are not one!
NEVER stoop to their level!
You are here to enhance our skills,
your abilities! and people who play tactics are hassles in your path!
They are NOT your friends!

Handle them patiently! without hurting yourself emotionally!
and that is the lesson!

People who function based on jealousy......might reach somewhere by pulling others down...
But then even a donkey can win the race......if its tail on fire!

Don't participate in the race!
You are the best! you are unique!
You are here for a higher purpose!

Things to remember!

You are not your body,

you are not your personality,

your thoughts or your emotions.

You are the holy, eternal,

COURAGEOUS soul who bravely planned this lifetime

Who bravely planned to leave a realm of eternal love, light,

peace and joy to come in the body to experience Earthly challenges..

so you can balance karma, heal others (who are ready to get healed), 

experience contrast and to correct false feelings about the self!

You are holy, courageous, multidimensional, powerful!

p.s. Don't indulge in people who are manipulative! and who spread rumors!

You are not a prey for their low self esteem! Don't be part of their journey!

pay attention to yours!

#talkingaboutpain

Sharing your pain....is not asking for sympathy!
Its information put out in the world...so that people
who are suffering could know that they are not alone!
Lets break the taboo by talking about pain!
Welcome it, acknowledge it and then find solutions together!