'Name' sake!

"There have been few times, that I have been anywhere and not been 'sold out!'

There have been a few times when you bring in a new person in your life and 

have that person in some way betray you or use you or take advantage of you!"

What is so extraordinary about some people is if they care about you they will 

confront you! and they will understand you... They will not spread rumors about you!
and will not go to the 'media'! and will not pass flippant remarks just to put you down!

wait for such people because they exist! the others who show passive aggression..(for their own benefit') are just for the 'name' sake!