Nirzara Verulkar

Monday, May 27, 2019

TEACHER!

If you deny to be part of my group,
I will humiliate you!

Said no 'TEACHER' EVER!

Fourth time in a week!

'Whatever you do to me, is ALREADY done to you!'

Better know your limits!

'Whatever you do to me, is ALREADY done to you!'

Don't you ever forget that!

If we are going to find our way back to each other,
we have to understand empathy!
Because empathy is an anecdote to shame!

If you put shame in a petri dish
it needs a few things to grow exponentially!
secrecy, silence, judgement, disguise, smirks, nudges!

if you put same amount of shame in another dish and fill it with
empathy and understanding!

It cannot survive!

Guilt and Shame!

There is a huge difference between guilt and shame!
Guilt is 'I made a mistake'
Shame is 'I am a mistake'!

Shame is the voice that says
'You are not good enough!'
I know you are not good enough or
powerful enough!

and if we can quiet down and walk in
and say I am going to do this!

Shame drives two big tapes!

'Never good enough!'
and if you can talk yourself out of that one!

'Who do you think you are!?'

Shame is focus on self ,
guilt is a focus on behavior!

Shame is I am bad! Guilt is I did something bad!

'I am sorry I made a mistake' - Guilt
'I am sorry, I am a mistake' - shame!

and do not even for a second think that you are a mistake!
Do not let anyone treat you that way!

shame is correlated with depression, bullying, eating disorders!
and guilt is inversely correlated with those things!

The ability hold something that we have done or failed to do
up against who we want to be is adaptive! Its uncomfortable
but its adaptive!

So its okay to have shame...If you deny shame you become a sociopath!
So the choice is easy!

Hold responsibility for your existence here!
Serve your purpose with whatever that you have!

:)

Did you notice!?
A few posts deleted!
Feeling much better!

And please watch your comments!
I will not repeat but there are legal consequences
to things if this continues!

Its about people's lives!

I have seen what you are up to and its NOT okay!

Saturday, May 25, 2019

Plork! :) Play + work!

One responsible act necessary for human advancement!
and represents the ecstasy we feel when work and play are one!

- Corita!

!

Citizen of this universe!

बेअर!?

And 'Bear with me'!
How about using the correct बेअर!?

I want copyright over the term
'Meaaanwhiiiiiiiiiiile'! ;p

Corita!

Friday, May 24, 2019

Dare Not!

And dare NOT mention my near and dear
ones on your pathetic blog!
These people meant something to me!

There are some memes floating around like debris...
on the internet!
why don't you handle that!? And leave me alone!?

And DARE not doubt me!
It requires guts to step away from people that matter to you
and lead life on your own!

Just try minding your own business!
And EVERYTHING is been noted!
every coincidence is been noted!
Just saying!