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Failure is meant to stripe away the inessential!
I stopped pretending to myself anything other than I was
and put all my energy into the work, that mattered to me!

Found this somewhere!

Power of Mantra!

Finding your mantra and chanting it every moment, in every breath
will help you to stay focussed, logical and give a sense of
detachment from all the drama!

Mantra's is a spiritual friend that reduces one's fear, makes one grounded
in faith! It does not make you robotic! It makes you strong!

It will help you make most of your existence and make
it easier to stay sincere to your body and mind!

When the time comes mantra is that boat that helps sail one
peacefully to the other shore!

Try practicing these things! Before passing shallow remarks!

Just saying!

Difference between Shame and Humiliation!

If Salli gets a bad report...teacher calls her in front of the entire class and writes
'STUPID' on her paper in  front of everyone! There are two responses that Salli could create!

1. May be my paper was not written well but I did not deserve to be called in front of the entire class and called stupid! I did NOT deserve this! - Humiliation!

2. She is my teacher, she called me in front of the entire class and said I am stupid so I must be stupid! - Shame!

The difference between humiliation and shame is the sense of 'Deserving'!
So humiliation is a superior emotion because it shelters your self worth!
And discards shame regardless of who is offering that!
what age, qualification and post
the person has!

Guilt Statements'

You are a great person! But you made a stupid choice!

ALWAYS make statements that are 'guilt statements'

And not based on shame!

Stay away from such people! They are NOT your friends!

And doubt intentions of those
who make you feel like a mistake!
or shame you!

'Ethical' decision making!

How many of you have ever tried to make
an ethical right decision...in a face of a group
determined to move in a
completely opposite direction!?

You are going to make some people really mad by doing this!

There is probably nothing more difficult than
standing up in front of people that you respect, that you work
with, you feel a sense of belonging with,
and saying 'This is not the right thing to do!'

And I am not going to let you do this!
Or I am not part of this!

Quiver!

What is the one variable in people
who can heavily lean in joy?
It is part of vulnerability but its also a practice!

Its gratitude!
The only thing that separate people who cannot
lean into joy is because we are dress rehearsing tragedy!

And the reason we dress rehearse tragedy, is so we can
beat vulnerability a punch!

So its like this great thing is happening but then I am going to
picture the worst case scenario, so when I get hurt I am prepared!

But by doing that the only thing that you are doing is squandering the joy
of that moment, that builds a reservoir for when hard things happen!
So do our bodies really perceive joy as vulnerability and threat?

and we quiver? And some of us use this quiver as a warning sign and start
thinking about terrible things! And others use that quiver as a reminder to be grateful!

Its like Celie said, 'I might be black, I might be ugly but I am here! I am here!'

Inevitable..

If you are brave, you are going to fall
that's inevitable! And so we have to learn to get back up!

LOL :)

If you write your blog sitting over a wooden chair
I hope it has some naked nails..(Nothing personal)
If you write your blog sitting over a sofa or A
bed I hope it has some open safety pins or needles..
and worst case scenario if your write your blog
sitting on a commode chair, I hope it flushes you when you
least expect it.....now please 'lurk' your face behind your
stupid camera! :D LOL

:)

My Cup Runneth Over :) quite literally here!

Savitri was known for her courage, strength and I tried to depict her
in one the poses from Major Archana of the tarot cards!
as the STAR! :)

Savitri won Yama the God of death by her intellect
and wit :)

Star is one of the major Archanas and it depicts prosperity,
faith, hope and a realization of how truly blessed you are when it appears
in your spread!

This is the first rough exploration for a project that I have just started
working on!

Its NOT okay!

विपुल केशसंभार असला म्हणजे मेंदु असतोच अस नहीं.
जरा कौतुक केल तर डोक्यावर बसायला लागतात लोक.
दादर police station ला जायला तीन तास लागतात जेमतेम!
आणि चीज़ आवडत  असेल तर खुशाल खा!
पण घाणेरडी  गाणी चेपायची गरज नाही.
Insta status पाहिलय मी!

And no more loose remarks!

Its NOT okay!

Go fetch!

Go fetch a frisbee or something!
I do not lend my tiara!

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Sterile Aunt!?

Or is it the sterile aunt!?

TEACHER!

If you deny to be part of my group,
I will humiliate you!

Said no 'TEACHER' EVER!

Fourth time in a week!

'Whatever you do to me, is ALREADY done to you!'

Better know your limits!

'Whatever you do to me, is ALREADY done to you!'

Don't you ever forget that!

Empathy!

If we are going to find our way back to each other,
we have to understand empathy!
Because empathy is an anecdote to shame!


If you put shame in a petri dish
it needs a few things to grow exponentially!
secrecy, silence, judgement, disguise, smirks, nudges!

if you put same amount of shame in another dish and fill it with
empathy and understanding!

It cannot survive!

Guilt and Shame!

There is a huge difference between guilt and shame!
Guilt is 'I made a mistake'
Shame is 'I am a mistake'!

Shame is the voice that says
'You are not good enough!'
I know you are not good enough or
powerful enough!

and if we can quiet down and walk in
and say I am going to do this!

Shame drives two big tapes!

'Never good enough!'
and if you can talk yourself out of that one!

'Who do you think you are!?'

Shame is focus on self ,
guilt is a focus on behavior!

Shame is I am bad! Guilt is I did something bad!

'I am sorry I made a mistake' - Guilt
'I am sorry, I am a mistake' - shame!

and do not even for a second think that you are a mistake!
Do not let anyone treat you that way!

shame is correlated with depression, bullying, eating disorders!
and guilt is inversely correlated with those things!

The ability hold something that we have done or failed to do
up against who we want to be is adaptive! Its uncomfortable
but its adaptive!

So its okay to have shame...If you deny shame you become a sociopath!
So the choice is easy!

Hold responsibility for your existence here!
Serve your purpose with whatever that you have!

:)

Did you notice!?
A few posts deleted!
Feeling much better!

And please watch your comments!
I will not repeat but there are legal consequences
to things if this continues!

Its about people's lives!

I have seen what you are up to and its NOT okay!

Plork! :) Play + work!

One responsible act necessary for human advancement!
and represents the ecstasy we feel when work and play are one!

- Corita!

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Citizen of this universe!

Citizen of this universe!

बेअर!?

And 'Bear with me'!
How about using the correct बेअर!?

I want copyright over the term
'Meaaanwhiiiiiiiiiiile'! ;p

Corita!

Dare Not!

And dare NOT mention my near and dear
ones on your pathetic blog!
These people meant something to me!

There are some memes floating around like debris...
on the internet!
why don't you handle that!? And leave me alone!?

And DARE not doubt me!
It requires guts to step away from people that matter to you
and lead life on your own!

Just try minding your own business!
And EVERYTHING is been noted!
every coincidence is been noted!
Just saying! 

:)

Feedback on my new book!

Who is Misleading who!?

I have been following your stupid blog for many years now!
So do not tell me who is misleading who! 

Still from a project!

- Beatriz at Dinner

You think killing is hard?
try healing something!
You can break something in two seconds...
but it can take forever to fix it!

- Beatriz at Dinner

Hahaha! I am like this! sitting in my room
winning every imaginary argument! :D

Don't apologize for it!

If people are pretending to help you with the 'PR'
FIRE them! Become the best version of yourself
and don't apologize for it!

#notsomanipulativesquad

Hope you are doing something that helps someone
become the best version of themselves!

(If you are doing anything against their will, pull up your socks
you are about to get a big fight!)

#notsomanipulativesquad

Not anymore!

I am done reading your blog!
Not anymore!

Protect yourself, shelter yourself!

Protect yourself, shelter yourself!

stay safe!

Stay safe! Do not receive 2.49 A.M. calls!

Sky!

Her name is Sky! and a caterpillar is her pet!

'Tiger Who Came To Tea' author Judith Kerr - in her own words

RIP!

I was introduced to this wonderful book at AFCC in one of the presentations!
RIP Judith Kerr!

WIP!

Enough of all this!
Some work in progress!

Strictly NOT okay!

'My attempt at its translate could be atrocious, insignificant and without sense, but an effort is at least expected to be valid ..'

Strictly NOT okay! Back off! Stop misinterpreting!

Sure!

'upper storied complicated space of the human living'

Sure! when you wear flashy yellow socks...
your mind automatically is focussed on your legs
Anything in sober colors is bound to appear complex to you!

what a shame!

We are hardwired for connection!

'I do not care what people think,
I do not care about critics in the arena'

sends a huge red flag up for me!

We are hardwired for connection, when
we stop caring what people think,
we lose our capacity to connect!

Not caring what people think, is its own kind of hustle!
Instead of pushing such people away who criticize,
what we need to do is reserve seats for them!

And then say, I see you, I hear you!
But I am going to show up and do this anyway!
I have got a seat for you and you are welcome to come!
But I am not going to take your feedback!

Courage!

If courage is the value we want to hold!
We are going to get criticized!
That is the consequence!
You cannot avoid it!

And its the new philosophy of criticism....

That if you are not in the arena of getting some
criticism back from me
I am not interested in your 'Feedback'!

If you have something constructive to say,
its okay. But if you are in the cheap seats,
I am no way interested in that!

Authenticity!

I told you to delete your low IQ
blog! So one would not have to
go through your relentless rant!

Faith is not to be proved sir!
It has to be cultivated...

Like affection for some people
does not depend on how stinky
their choice of stories is!
'Like it much!'?

and I heard Badla was an adaptation
of some spanish movie!
So that explains the 'Authenticity'!

Intentions are to be doubted sir!
So I doubt you!

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Important!

And sometimes you will have to divorce your friends and divorce your family members!
And if you handle this with love in doing it, they will come back!
You will have an opportunity to reconcile!

You just have to tell them that,
'I will NOT let you treat me like this!'
Be unapologetic and affirmative while telling them so!

To ALL that is God!

Your biggest choices begin and end with you!
Your internal big questions!
Who do I want to be in this world!?

My relationship to the source, to energy!
To ALL that is God!
I am not asking whether you believe in God!

But your experience to that which is all life which is God!
Which is divine and universal!
Being connected and aligned with that!
when you are tuned in and charged in to that!
So whenever you feel empty,
you go of inside yourself and you connect to the source!
And you know that all things are possible!

To know that and to choose to do the right thing
in service and significance!
So learn to honor yourself first, love yourself first
otherwise you have nothing to give away!

And these things will not only lead you to a blessed life!
Not just a rewarding life, a gifted one but a SWEET life!

That's what you want! You want the sweetness cause even when the
storms come and THEY WILL! You'll know - This too shall pass!

You will know, the storm is passing over! and you shall not be moved!
Because you know who you are!

Doing the right thing!

So doing the right thing, when nobody knows
that you are doing the right thing!
Will ALWAYS bring the right back to you!

And its okay if people do not support you!

How to know if you are right...check what you are feeling!
You will feel good, peaceful...and if you are not feeling peaceful,
its not right for you!

Not even from yourself!

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Sometimes misunderstandings cost you a lifetime!
I remember repeatedly when asked about my childhood
I could think of was detaching from that one guy
who was not getting along with my family
left this country and never returned when I was a child!

I was determined that I was never EVER losing anyone that I cared about.

But I did!
I swear it was never about putting the onus on someone!
But was the fear of losing another person!
that was going to decide my fate for rest of my life!
And it did! I should have been stronger, patient!
That was the mistake!
End of story!

And sir when you think that "that's not all that is going through
someone's body and mind, yes,
its the fear of what another assumption this group of people are going to draw!

try asking instead of assuming!
There is a perfectly logical,
explanation to everything in this world!

And someone's stress disorder is not a sugarcoated myth!

You bet! I am the best company you will ever have!
There are few people in this world who stand for themselves out of every odd!

Scream!

Yes! Please scream for an hour!
That will stop the bleeding occurring in my left ear
by listening to some songs for past 13 hours!

Robotic!

And do not belittle someone's hard work and conviction by calling it Robotic!

Hmmm

Some insta feeds should be watched.....
'Liking' them or not is a different question!

Monday Blues! WIP!

I hope your heart and body is engaged in the right (quite literally here!) place!
And you do not need anybody's validation for ANYTHING!
Lesson learnt!

Spare my moon!

Please spare my moon. Its not an item for some
cheap late night comedy!

!

We are burdened by our mistakes.
But we are not destined to repeat them!
We have a free will! and each one of us
is entitled to a better future!

:)

I am a 'verified' practicing Catholic!
They say!

HAHAHAHA..

So much anonymous nonsense!
Wondering when am I getting that verified tick!
All this rubbish for free!?

:D

NOT okay!

"… AND .. robots shall have real relationships with people .."

Noted! Saw this! Its NOT okay!

London Bridge is falling down!

Because why not?!

Yes! Because why should you not be 'terrified'?!
Its not like I am stalking someone on instagram and
then misquoting their captions to project what I think of myself!?

Its such a great day, I could not wait for you to see
this for yourself! That how old and Dumb you are! :)
Happy realization :)

Good luck for your fabulous blog!

Chic Flick ;p

Strictly Chic Flick please! ;p

Best!

As a brand, we believe in choosing just the best rhymes!

Stepmom (1998) - Isabel's Plan Works Scene (8/10) | Movieclips

Scenes like these to rescue! ;p

Dhadam! LOL ;P

Why just Pu - Bau
I know some people who
break into cabins with their stinky brains!

'Dhadam' should be the next hit!
'Dhadam se kholo jail ka darwaaja!'

Dhadam se Bolo - Jail mata di! LOL

Anyway my acting career is not working
cause now I look like a rotten vegetable!

And my writing competes with my looks! ;p

P.S. Learn how to give back to people and not go below waist!
Cause I truly believe that eyes are not below my belt!

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And Sir, Things shall be taken with a pinch of Ocean salt!
But first could you please reveal if Panama is an island or a city or a country?
Cause my google hangs as soon as I type Panama ;p

Hmmm...

If only pictures could speak...
I am wondering about 'Pooju' and 'Masu' (eight years later)
eating a poha and misal......in an inta status.......


Cause why not!?

Mouth full!

Yes! Try speaking with mouth full!
"The future is ........!"

LOL

:D

Hmmmm!

People are turning Maharashtrian

शुद्ध मराठीत सांगायचे तर  - 

मज कसले अप्रूप नाही !
अर्थात  
आए डोंट गिव अ कप केक  !

;p

Haklun ale saglya bibtyana......huh! Just FYI!

Its not 'OKAY!!'

Did you seek attention again!?
Go seek something else......
may be a soft copy of some stupid book
I threw in the trash?!

Try seeking that!

So NOT okay!...

:)

And those who leave....its their loss! :)

I feel sorry for them! hahaha!

:)

Grandpa's Gift!

Sharing one of the illustrations from the project I just completed working :)

Something I worked on today :)

MC, BC , TC.....and?!

And someone asked me

MC - Masterclass
BC - Before Christ
TC - Ticket collector....

Just a few innocent 'Non attacking' (the doors) words!

p.s. Its time to call the cops!

It is about Survival!

Yesterday someone called me and without me asking anything said,
'But how can the colours of my outfits offend you!?'

(Well it seems to be offending you more than me.....I said to myself!)

People who colour code someone's PTSD ticks! Know exactly what they are doing!
Beware of such people! The colours are codes for them!
Its the glass through which they are watching you!

 and it will not take long for SUCH people from wearing colours to turning it ugly!

Report! Call out on them!